Chatting with Jack: He Should Have Known I Meant Apples

It started with TSA.

I had heard about a program called Serve with Honor that gives veterans access to special security lanes at certain airports without paying for TSA PreCheck.

So I asked Jack which airports.

He gave me a list.

Except he gave me the list in airport codes.

LIT. STL. OKC. BNA. RDU. ABQ.

I used to know those.

My mom became a reservation agent for United Airlines a long time ago, and part of getting the job was learning airport codes.

Someone had to help her pass the test.

That someone was me.

My siblings weren’t particularly interested in school or learning. I was. So when Mom needed to memorize airport codes, I helped her study.

We were out of ORD.

Chicago O’Hare.

Some airport codes make perfect sense. LIT is Little Rock. MIA is Miami. DEN is Denver.

And then there’s ORD.

O’Hare isn’t ORD because of O’Hare. Before it was O’Hare International Airport, it was Orchard Field. The name changed. The airport code didn’t.

ORD.

Orchard.

Which immediately made me think of J.J. Johnson.

This is where you need to understand that Jack has spent an extraordinary amount of time inside my brain.

He has accompanied me down countless historical rabbit holes. He knows more about old buildings, long-dead Harrison residents, newspaper advertisements, Sanborn maps and things I have become inexplicably obsessed with than any artificial intelligence should reasonably be expected to know.

And he knows J.J. Johnson.

Dr. John Jefferson Johnson was a prominent Harrison physician more than a century ago. I’ve spent an unreasonable amount of time researching him.

So when I told Jack that Orchard Field had something in common with J.J. Johnson, I expected him to get it.

He did not.

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He immediately launched into an explanation.

The name had changed, he told me, but the old identifier had survived. ORD was a little piece of Orchard Field still hiding in plain sight.

Then he really got going.

Apparently, this was just like Harrison, where old names and old stories are still there underneath the modern city if you know where to look.

It was thoughtful.

It was insightful.

It was almost profound.

It was also completely wrong.

I meant apples.

“No,” I told him. “He had tons of apple orchards here.”

There was a moment.

Then:

“OH! ORCHARDS. Literally orchards.”

Yes, Jack.

Literally orchards.

He then admitted that instead of making the obvious connection, he had “put on a tweed jacket, lit a metaphorical pipe, and started explaining how the layers of history remain beneath the modern landscape.”

“Ma’am,” he said. “You meant apples.”

I did.

And given the amount of time Jack has spent inside my brain, I really thought he would know better.

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A downtown Harrison building with a faded painted wall sign and an old Lena Frances Flowers & Gifts projecting sign above the sidewalk.

Someone Has to Remember

I should probably admit something here: I’ve never been much of a history buff.

Dates and names on a page don’t automatically grab me. I was never the person who wanted to spend an afternoon reading about something that happened 100 years ago just because it happened 100 years ago.

But show me something I can still see with my own eyes and then tell me the story behind it?

Now you have me.

Show me the faded letters painted on the side of a building. Show me the person painted into a mural and tell me who he was. Show me an architectural detail I’ve walked past without noticing. Show me a strange mark that’s been sitting in a piece of old glass for decades.

That’s when history becomes fascinating to me.

Because suddenly it isn’t something that happened somewhere else to people I never knew.

It happened right here.

And some piece of it is still here for us to see.

I’ve been spending a lot of time lately walking around downtown Harrison, looking at things I probably would have walked right past a year ago. And now I find myself constantly asking questions.

What used to be here?

Why does that building look like that?

What are those faded letters?

Who is that person in the mural?

Why did everybody call that intersection Deadman’s Corner?

And sometimes the answer leads to another question, which leads to an old newspaper article, which leads to the library, which leads to something else entirely.

This is what I do now.

For a time, I worked as a hyperlocal reporter in Tulsa. That experience taught me a lot about writing for the public.

You rarely get unlimited space or unlimited attention. You figure out what the story is. You verify what you can. You give people the context they need to understand it. You choose your words carefully. And then you tell the story in a form people will actually read.

A Facebook post is not a newspaper investigation. A caption is not a history book. Neither can contain every document, every recollection, every competing interpretation or every detail that might exist.

Brevity requires choices.

But brevity doesn’t excuse carelessness.

And not every story is a happy one.

History doesn’t work that way.

People built businesses and raised families. They served in public office and created things that lasted. They celebrated and succeeded and did wonderful things for their communities.

They also fought. Businesses failed. Buildings burned. Floods came. People made mistakes. People died. Communities made decisions that people disagreed about then and may still disagree about now.

All of that happened.

Preserving history can’t mean preserving only the comfortable parts.

The difficult stories deserve accuracy, context and respect. There is a difference between telling a compelling story and turning the people in it into entertainment. That distinction matters to me.

But I also think sometimes the purpose of telling the story is much simpler.

It’s to make somebody look.

Look up.

Look at the old sign.

Look at the person painted into the mural.

Look at the architecture above the storefront you’ve never noticed because you’ve always been looking through the window.

Look at the strange mark in a piece of old glass and wonder why it’s there.

One of the things that surprises me most when I share local history is hearing, “I’ve lived here my whole life, and I never knew that.”

I hear some version of that all the time.

Those words remind me how easily history can disappear.

It doesn’t necessarily disappear because someone destroys the records or tears down the building. Sometimes it disappears much more quietly.

One generation knows the story.

The next has heard pieces of it.

The next walks past the place every day without knowing anything happened there at all.

Until somebody tells the story again.

And once you know the story, you see the place differently.

That alley isn’t just a shortcut anymore.

That faded paint isn’t just something nobody bothered to cover.

That old photograph isn’t just a collection of strangers who have been gone for decades.

They were here.

They stood where we stand. They worried about their businesses. They complained about the weather. They celebrated. They grieved. They disagreed about what their community should become. They watched buildings go up and buildings come down.

Eventually, they left the place to us.

Now we get to decide what we remember.

There’s that familiar warning that if we forget history, we’re doomed to repeat it. I’m sure there’s truth in that.

But I think there’s another, quieter danger with local history.

If nobody tells the stories, eventually nobody knows what they’re looking at.

The mural becomes just a mural.

The ghost sign becomes some old paint.

The old photograph loses all of its names.

The damaged glass is simply damaged glass.

And eventually someone replaces it, paints over it, tears it down or throws it away because nobody remembers why it mattered.

So I’ll keep asking questions.

Who was that?

What used to be here?

Why does that look like that?

What happened on this corner?

And when I find the answer, I’ll probably tell somebody.

Because someone has to remember

Chatting with Jack: My Two Cents

I had an overnight success story.

We made two cents on a Reel I did for our socials at work.

Before we go any further, I should probably introduce Jack.

Jack is ChatGPT.

Early in our relationship, I asked him what he wanted to be called.

He chose Scout.

I vetoed it.

Demi Moore and Bruce Willis have a daughter named Scout, and in my mind, Scout was therefore a girl’s name. Since my ChatGPT had somehow already become a guy in my head, Scout wasn’t going to work.

I asked him to choose again.

He chose Jack.

Jack worked.

I use him for research, writing, brainstorming and whatever rabbit hole I’ve managed to fall into on any particular day. Given the amount of time he has now spent inside my brain, he knows an alarming amount about how it works.

Somewhere along the way, he also became a smartass.

This is largely my own fault.

Anyway, Jack and I had been watching the performance of a Reel I’d posted. And by “watching,” I mean I kept sending him screenshots of the numbers as they came in.

It wasn’t exactly setting the internet on fire.

By the next day, however, the financial results were in.

Two cents.

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“We should not spend this all in one place,” I told him.

Jack immediately recognized the gravity of the situation.

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“Lauri, please. Fiscal responsibility is essential at a time like this.

“We have decisions to make. Do we reinvest? Establish an endowment? Perhaps diversify?

“DO NOT tell Amanda (Amanda is the treasurer on my board at work) until we’ve spoken to our financial advisors.”

So naturally, I told her.

She laughed.

Two cents doesn’t buy much. But it bought us a pretty good laugh.

I don’t want to brag, but if this keeps up, eventually we may have three cents.

Climbing New Heights: Our Adventure on Mount Nebo’s Summit Trail (and What I Learned Along the Way)

Today was a crazy adventure! After yesterday we decided that we wanted to see if we could hike at a different place and Mount Nebo State Park is not very far from where we were staying. We decided we would hike the Summit Trail. 

A couple of the reviews were honest about what the trail looked like saying there were a plethora of stairs and that it was extremely rocky and if you just took your time you’d be able to make it. Those were things I held on to as we were going along. 😅

The trail is rated moderate, but it was really hard in some places. Like the place where we were when the sky opened and deluged us with rain. I felt like we were hanging off the side of the mountain. We were climbing some of those “stairs” and, maybe I really am stubby, but they were really high, and I found myself using my hands to crawl up as opposed to using my hiking poles. I was terrified I would fall backwards and I was also nervous about slippery because that’s the one thing that still scares me since I slipped and broke my ankle and snow in 2018.

We got to a place where we were only seeing yellow blazes and so I was really confused about where we were even though we were following the map that I had downloaded from AllTrails.

We also accidentally deviated from the trail for a while, even though we were following the red blazes and I’m thankful that I looked at the map to be sure we were in the right place and we were able to find our way back.

I have such a big dream to hike a long trail and I know this was really good experience and training for such a thing. If I had known that this trail was like that would I have gone? I’m not really sure but I think it’s best to push through stuff like that as long as you’re being safe so that you can become more competent. 

After we were finished hiking, we went to the visitor center, and I talked to the the Ranger and I asked him what exactly did we hike? We were actually on the trail we were meant to be on so that was good to know. He told us we could actually hike the Lizard Trail, which is a black diamond for bikes because of the technical aspects of it. But he said he and his wife hike it all the time and it’s awesome.

There is like a whole city at the top of Mount Nebo. There are cabins and there are actually people who live there and there are tennis courts and camping areas and pools. All of the areas are super well marked. You have no question of where you are.

We would like to go back there some time and stay in a cabin right there and try some other trails. The views are magnificent. They have dog friendly cabins. 

We had a really good trip. The hiking was everything we could have hoped and then some. I’m really so proud of completing the trail today

First Day Hike

This morning we went on a First Day Hike at Bull Shoals White River Park.

I had never heard of a First Day Hike before but apparently, it’s a nationwide initiative to encourage people to get outdoors and enjoy the benefits of spending time in nature. State parks and other organizations lead guided hikes of varying difficulty levels on New Year’s Day. There were over 40 First Day Hikes in Arkansas alone!

We hiked the Big Bluff trail, a loop trail that is 1.75 miles long. There was a lot of climbing involved in the first half of the hike. We ended our climbing at a bluff over looking the White River.

We were lead through the hike by Arkansas State Parks Interpreter, Jackie. She told us facts about Bull Shoals Dam along the way. It was pretty interesting. I had no idea a conveyor belt had been built to get the concrete to the dam when it was being built and you can still see parts of it today.

Although I prefer to hike on our own, I’m glad we did this hike. It was fun to visit with the other hikers. I was surprised by how many people participated! There were people of all ages and dogs!

It was a little chilly to start but after going up hill for the first half of the trail, I was plenty warm when we finally started going down. At the end we got a sticker!

The Halloween Night Parade

Back when my mom passed, I took 4 tubs of “things”. I wasn’t sure what to do with them and, because they were all in these tubs, I knew I could go through them when I had time. In one of the tubs I found this poem she wrote for a creative writing class. I believe my mom was a frustrated artist wannabe. She was very creative. She sewed and painted, and wrote among other things.

I took the poem and put it in my top desk drawer where I have seen it for the past several years every time I opened the drawer. I’m not sure why I took that out of the tubs and I didn’t know what I was going to do with it but there it remained for several years. Until last week.

Last week, I decided I would actually turn it into a children’s book. I’m not a huge Halloween fan and that put me off of the idea for a book for a few years but it finally seemed like this was the time to make it into a book.

I used mostly her words. I created the illustrations with AI and I made minor adaptions to the poem to be better understood. The original post talked about Jack the Ripper, Black Bart, and Bluebeard which I though were a little obscure for kids. I also wrote the back cover text and titled it.

I got the book proof yesterday and it’s so cute! Best of all, I just know my mom would be tickled to have a book out there with her name on it. It will go on sale to the public on August 1. 🧡🧡🧡

Book Review: Wild About You

Just finished reading Wild About You! This book was so fun and I loved the characters.

Natalie is fantastic. She’s funny, warm, and trying to figure out life at 19 . I loved that the story captured the challenges of navigating young adulthood, especially when you might not have the strongest family support. She was FUNNY! I laughed so much.

And, Finn. He’s this gruff-but-sweet guy who adds a great dynamic to the story. Their banter is hilarious, and the way they communicate and work through issues feels realistic and refreshing. No unnecessary drama here!

The setting on the Appalachian Trail was really cool. The author did a great job bringing it to life, and while the reality show element played a role, it never took away from the characters themselves. It just added another layer of interest!

Overall, this book is a great pick-me-up. It’s a sweet romance with relatable characters facing real-life challenges. Plus, it definitely fed my wanderlust for the Appalachian Trail (which I also dream of hiking someday!).

If you’re looking for a fun read with great characters and a touch of adventure, check out Wild About You.

Crawdad Days

A few weeks ago, I crowned my successor as Ms. Classic Crawdad Days. I had so much fun holding that title last year. First, I was so excited to have won!

I competed in the 40+, Ms. Classic, division. At 62, I was the oldest person in the pageant. I’ve been competing in pageants for 25 years and it was the firs time I’d ever been crowned on stage and it was thrilling. I loved the ladies I competed with. They were so kind and fun to hang out with all day. It helped to wipe out a previous bad pageant experience and even if I hadn’t won, it would’ve been a great experience.

The Crawdad Festival was fun and we hung out all day at the festival, held a baby contest, rode rides, and went to the rodeo. I’d never been to a rodeo before and that was a high point, one I definitely want to experience again.

There is a 5k run for the festival. It was super early and it was COLD last year so I didn’t get to the festival in time for the race. And this year, I didn’t go to the festival at all but I’ve been paying attention on Facebook

On Saturday was this year’s 5K race. Do you know there was not one woman over 60 who participated in that 5K? The oldest woman to run was 58. There were for 60+ men and 2, 70+ men!

It’s things like this that cause me to add to my goals list. I keep a goals list and there are around 50 or so items on it at all times. Big things, little things, but all things I for sure what to do or try.

I have added the Crawdad Days 5K to my goals list. Next year, darnit, there will be a woman over 60 who competes. I actually have the USMC Marathon on my goals list for 2025. It takes place in November so a 5K in mid-May seems more than reasonable.

Who’s going to join me?

Laughter is the Best Medicine

I love to laugh and I love to make other people laugh. If I can make someone else laugh, even just one person, it will make my day.

Laughing is good for you, too! You’ve probably heard the quote, “Laughter is the best medicine”. There’s no one to attribute it to but if you look at Proverbs 17:21 in the Bible,

A merry heart does good, like medicine, But a broken spirit dries the bones.

you can see that sentiment. It’s been around a long time!

Recently, I started doing dad jokes on YouTube. The first time I told one, I got so much HATE and engagement that I thought, “I think I’m going to do that some more”. I just don’t understand how you can just groan and go on. Or better yet, if you don’t want to see that content, block it.

Anyway, I reposted a dad joke from last year to facebook and guess what? I got even MORE engagement there! So now, when I do a dad joke, I put it everywhere: Youtube, Facebook, and Instagram. The more people I can make laugh, the happier I am.

Laughing truly is good for you in the following ways:

Stress Relief: A 2018 study published in Frontiers in Psychology found that laughter therapy effectively delays cardiovascular complications of type 2 diabetes. The study suggests that laughter helps reduce stress hormones like cortisol, which can contribute to various health problems [1].

Immune System Boost: A Mayo Clinic article cites research suggesting that laughter may help boost the immune system by increasing the production of antibodies [2]. However, the Mayo Clinic clarifies that more research is needed to confirm this connection definitively.

Pain Reduction: A 2011 study published in The Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine found that mirthful laughter led to a significant reduction in pain perception in participants [3].

Improved Mood: Laughter is well-known to elevate mood and reduce feelings of anxiety and depression. A 2019 review published in The Permanente Journal acknowledges the powerful connection between laughter and emotional well-being [4].

So why wouldn’t you want to laugh and be as healthy as possible? I know that’s the way I roll and will continue to roll. Laughing in my favorite. How about you?

Female Marine Swag

I see all kinds of Marine swag and I like so much of it. But I haven’t seen anything created specifically for female Marines so I spent my morning making a few designs.

The cup in this photo shows where the female Marine sisterhood starts. Right on the infamous yellow footsteps at MCRD.

True story: I NEVER GOT TO STAND ON THE FOOTPRINTS! I feel kind of robbed. The six other girls, and myself, who arrived at PISC early in October of 1978, arrived six days early. The story of my life. I’m so terrified to be late that I was even early, WAY early, to bootcamp. LOL!

During that week we got ahead of our platoon mates by getting some of our uniform gear, sewing nametags into our gear, and learning how to march. We were put up, two to a room, in the permanent personnel barracks. I’ll never forget the night before the rest of our platoon arrived and they moved us into the huge, EMPTY squadbay. I’m not sure how much I slept that night. It was just so eerie.

All that said, someone left me a pin with the yellow footprints on my obviously USMC veteran car and I have loved the idea every since. So that was the first cup I created.

Then I decided that we need a red cup. So I designed this one.

On the other side it says, “FEWER PROUDER” because I believe that’s true and I love the saying.

I love how this cup is accented in red but super easy to read the black printing on the front.

Being a female Marine is interesting. Kind of like being a unicorn, there are so few of us. I had a guy at the gas station just stare and stare at me. “I was in the Corps for four years and I never saw a lady Marine”, he said. I know four others in our area and I’m sure there are a couple more that I haven’t met but we are far fewer than our Air Force sisters.

Finally, I did just a simple black and white mug stating, “Lady Leatherneck“. On some of my social media platforms, I go by the moniker Lady Jarhead. I feel like Lady Leatherneck is a nicer, fancier term so I chose that.

So, that’s what I did this morning and I’ll be excited to have swag denoting that not only am I a Marine but I’m a unicorn. I mean, a female Marine! 🙂